Buyers like a process.
Their process may be different from mine.
This buyers process in buying a home may be different from that buyer.
But they all like a process.
And one thing that absolutely NO buyer likes is to hear “give us your highest and best offer.”

That means that the house in question is wanted.
By other buyers.
Sometimes lots of other buyers.
Sometimes only one other buyer.
I have 2 or 3 of these “highest and best” offer negotiations going on today.
Here are a few buyer responses and results:
A. One possible response from a buyer is “I want to see the other offers!”
- No. You can’t. If I tell you or your agent that there is another offer – there is. Anything else is fraud and we don’t do that. We say it is true and it is.
B. Another possible response from a buyer is “I don’t want to bid on that house anymore – pull my offer!”
- Will do. You can. But then you won’t be purchasing that house. And you may facilitate the other buyer getting it at a price much lower than you would have paid. I try to explain to my buyers that if a multiple offer situation is occurring on a bank owned property that bank does not care about WHO or WHAT they just want to close the sale. You can pull out but you won’t hurt their feelings or teach them anything.
C. You can do your research. And bid accordingly. Then you get the house or investment you want at the price you can afford. One of the best and sneakiest tactics is real simple – offer, in writing, to bid $1000 HIGHER than any other competing written offer. Sometimes, again in a bank owned situation, they won’t let you do this. But other owners will, and it gets you back in control, with an effective “veto” over the final price if you write the counter offer properly.
No one likes unwanted competition.
It disrupts the buying process.
But for the BEST HOUSE at a GREAT PRICE you must be prepared for a “Highest and Best” offer scenario.